So, did you make any?
Tis the season to make massive, life-changing pronouncements about the as yet unmarred calendar stretched out before us.
This year, I’m going to be good.
I’ve read a bunch of articles and blog posts mocking or dismissing New Year’s resolutions. I get it. Imagining we’re suddenly going to be different and fix all the things we dislike about ourselves because the page flipped from December to January is a bit of wishful thinking. My friend Dan, who guest-wrote my last blog post, said this in a recent Facebook post:
“January 1st, 2016 has been an awesome day. I don’t believe in New Years Resolutions, in part because my first AA sponsor drilled in my head ‘one day at a time is all your little mind can handle Koenigs.’ Today was a great day, going to make tomorrow a great day when I wake up.”
I really like this approach, and everyone in recovery understands the wisdom implied. Making big plans for the rest of the year–or the rest of my life–is often a super way to implement absolutely no change whatsoever. Any of us who sin and repent have said, at least once, “I will never do that again!” Uh-huh. Wouldn’t that be nice? Just swear off that pesky sin and be done with it? The only “never” I can accurately report from my experience is that this never works for me. Taking life on a day at a time, seeking to make changes a day, an hour, a minute at a time, turns out to be as much as we can handle.
“So do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring worries of its own. Today’s trouble is enough for today.” –Jesus