Questions I Need to Ask


Okay, a quick break from the To Live a Faith That Is Authentic  series.

I have some questions I’ve been needing to ask.  It’s time:


What does it take for you to admit you’re wrong?  How much evidence do you require?  

This is a great post on the issue from Jayson Bradley, whose blog both inspires and discourages me at the same time.*  What a gift!


When your text (how you’re communicating, not on your phone) is kindness and acceptance but your sub-text is “you’re not good enough,” do you really believe yourself that you’re being kind?  

When two humans have lived together for many years it usually happens that each has tones of voice and expressions of face which are almost unendurably irritating to the other. Work on that. Bring fully into the consciousness of your patient that particular lift of his mother’s eyebrows which he learned to dislike in the nursery, and let him think how much he dislikes it. Let him assume that she knows how annoying it is and does it to annoy – if you know your job he will not notice the immense improbability of the assumption. And, of course, never let him suspect that he has tones and looks which similarly annoy her. As he cannot see or hear himself, this is easily managed.”  C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters

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